I was so offended. But talk to damn much. 04/8Libra. Those with this sign have a very bold personality and don't hide their feelings (unless they feel in such a way that the other person would have the upper hand). What I saw was shocking and a wake up call. It can be easy to spot this change in a Sagittarius because it is so out of character and such a contrast to the type of person they usually are. Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. I, hate when dumb people try to judge or bully me. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. By hurtful i mean really hurtful libras observe and are very diplomatic, they watch your everyday behavior ask you lots of questions if they are interested and learn about you enough just to be able to push the right buttons to hurt you. I'm a Libra Sun with a Libra Ascendant. I have begun meeting new people like this "dont be fooled, I am not what it seems". But do love a tennis match with a Libra! One of my best friends is a Libra with a moon in Pisces. I have to say you have gone out of your way to taint this sign more so than they deserve and more so than your other dark side write ups. Only then can they have heightened compulsions, turning into an unrecognizable and impulsive being. Wow! Keep it light and simple. Libras are very good at hiding their emotions. I was a fool sheltering her from all her accusers but they were actually right all along. )are NOT COMPATIBLE? He had made so many promises to me about the future we had together. she has never ever apologized to me and never will. It's hard to be happy for someone you don't genuinely click with. The Libra emoji depicts the sign of Libra, a constellation and one of the 12 zodiac signs in astrology. Mmmmm Librans, Ive known a few, the first one a friend of a friend, a woman, I overheard bitching me out about my extra pounds (lol) in a pub one night, she was sitting in the next booth to me blissfully unaware that I could hear everything she was saying about me, me sagittarius with a big ego (and ass) apparently and a sharp little virgo moon wasted no time in letting her have my arrows, it shut her up! Lolz, I think your Sun might be among those Scorpio stars. Let him ask a few questions that were way out of line before lost my temper & told him to plz back the hell off. I invited her to be part of a group, and they made fun of her "opening monologue" behind her back. It triggered me into believing that the Libra still loved me. Send them to Neptune with their hiding addiction. I am a few years late in reading your amazing and very poignant article regarding The Dark Side of Saccharine Libra, but I am soo glad I found it. Answer The Lion's Paw- A Libra is ruled by their emotions and intuition. It doesn't matter how badly that ex may have hurt them Libras are incredibly understanding individuals who can forgive and forget just about anything. This is very true about Libras. My partner and her don't have a friendship. We were staying in a very beautiful hotel and this was Christmas Eve. ( baring in mind her parents live 5 minutes from her home and she's close to them, she alledges to have 2 childhood friends who live near her too.. she didn't turn to them.) Don't let their "niceness" fool you. They will REFUSE to listen to what you have to say if you are very outspoken person. she is to this day. I have hit that point in life where the realization of who I truly am is so upsetting that I despise myself. He prayed for my downfall so i can need him. I'm going to be very honest, I was pretty ruthless with my ex wife, especially in the latter part of our marriage. Librans, like the Scales that symbolise the sign, are often concerned with attaining balance, harmony, peace, and justice in the world. Every astrology reading sugarcoats signs like Libra so it must be that shocking for you. Or when she brought home a kitten who was kept locked in a bedroom so for 6-12 hours ( usually for a long time )so she wouldnt be bothered because the kitten wanted to play. Libra (September 23 - October 22) Libra is one of the most balanced signs, but when depressed, they tend to have feelings of instability and moodiness, with a reduced urge to socialize. They can be extremely sensitive creatures at times and some things just affect them more than they would other signs. angry messages from friends and acquaintances without any apparent cause. Just dont bother try cheering up a Libran when they are in a bad mood. A Libran I worked with began the day by removing her coat and airing her daily 20-minute complaint. There are Librans whom I both like and despise for this quality, depending on what they've got to say. controlling. And while it would be nice to have this kind of mind-reader in our lives, we should always make sure we understand our own emotions before we get others involved. Most people are made of many layers, and can exhibit any set of traits associated with a various signs at any given time. Because it's almost impossible to feel sorry for them. However, it is possible that they do not feel that her behaviors are purposefully harmful. Known for being indecisive and eager to please, this air sign is unlikely to ever initiate a breakup and very likely to mourn one long after it's over. They can also become unresponsive in conversations, making it almost impossible to get through to them when they're depressed. Oops Mr. Libra "forgot" his wallet at his apartment (he insisted I come in so I would have to sit in a hot car) clever way to get a female in a Libra males apartment. But I can agree when there's a negative personality and it's fixated on the sign some ppl are going to agree. This ability to read people allows them to avoid conflict by hiding their true feelings. I'm sorry many of you have had incredibly bad experiences with Librans, but understand that not all of them deserve to be so harshly judged. Aries tends to go all out when it comes to feeling sad. she was so nice to outsiders but treated my family and dad like dirt. Buts its a ruse. Even the most healthiest Libran is prone to snacking on sweets. Seems to be written by someone who had a bad experience with a Libran and conluded that all Librans are like that one scumbag they once knew..horrible. I will never justify our dark side. We expect people to act gracefully and with consideration of one another.we hate people that act like mindless brutes and we can not stand those that take advantage of others for their own gain. Mind & heart got twisted in and out 24/7 till I broke down entirely. i am sick of her invading my space. Hi everyone, I am a Libran that you guys are bad-mouthing/talking about. but they need to recharge in order to keep it up or as i said before they will lash out. That gut feeling is what actual makes us feel human, not the thoughts or beliefs we have, because they can often lie and the heart we have, even if it's synthetic or artificial can't. And booooyyyyyy. I was a bit indecisive in my younger younger years. As a Libra male, i agree with most of this. o que associo a cada signo aries: personalidade touro: inflexvel gmeos: ingenuidade cncer: terapia (precisam mt) leo: ignorncia virgem: sociopatia libra: inconvenincia escorpio: intimidade sagitrio: hide sadness behind beautiful smile aquario: metidos peixes: sonsos Their sadness is one of hopelessness and they're prone to giving into it. But their dark side is an endless abyss of self-serving, manipulative, victim-based behavior. Or the inability to care about circumstances in our roomie situation that were distressing to me as I thought of her like a sister. Dont tell libras your secrets or anything. Think of Mahatma Gandhi. That would be my control issue. Dark-side Librans ignore or hush up reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen. No. So don't take the (general) layout of the Libra to heart, it's only one sliver of what variations there can be about the Libra. The Libra was seething underneath her shock that I phoned her, that she hadn't got my partner! I fucking hate myself when I'm grumpy and it makes it even worse. RELATED: What Happens When A Libra Is Hurt? The reason they hide their feelings is because they don't want to burden the other person with their emotions. You look and sound evil and very quite bitter. Hello, I'm one of Libras you guys are hating on. Im scorpio. What Calipreston said made my heart sink!! She had no idea she had this habit. The verbal abuse was ridiculous. You will find that the following article will help you navigate your relationship when she is dealing with grief, doubt, or regret. They exhibit intense melancholy with paranoia, and their own thoughts become scary to them. Stressful Circumstances. As long as you are not looking for clear advice or decision making, 4) When we love, we love with every part of our heart, we are absolutely ready to drop anything and everything for you. Libra. A lot of u on this site say too much. People can be quixotic and dynamic. Do Libras move on quickly? They cant get enough of the sugary stuff. Libras are more stable than most. It's extremely unfair to call Sylvia Browne a fake psychic. And what's described in the article is more like a personality disorder, rather than a dark side. Aries (March 21 April 19) "While Aries can be charmed by Libra for a while, one thing Aries can't stand is neediness," Monahan says. His best friends were always the most quiet guys he could find to hang around with. I dont know. With Libra, maintaining balance in their life is vital to their emotional wellbeing. Sometimes physicall abuse they dont care if your 3 or 95but when they know if anyone else finds out they can get in trouble they know how make them shut up before they even think about it. i can not even begin to describe the hell she put me through. They try to show that nothing is wrong. They try to show that nothing is wrong. RELATED: The Negative Personality Traits Of The Scorpio Zodiac Sign, According To Astrology. Dated a Libra over a year. I'm a Libran and I all I care about is love . Did i learn a lot! I hate drama, and i am not sociable either. Today he's converted into spiritualist religion, and I hope he's changed now although a few years back he let slip something about one of his sons who he said "he is very serious" and that "he is different from the younger one". True Librans dont like conflict or ugliness. When these emotions take over, be aware of a Virgo that becomes blunt and oppositional. When she shares her feelings with you, be certain to show her that you are willing and able to provide her emotional and intellectual support. Curse you Libra for messing men's life everywhere you go. Does breastfeeding affect a newborn's brain development? Her friends, family members, or partner may begin to feel that she chooses to undermine their relationships. 1) He acts shy when he is around you. Ive been so bad to you all this time. The more articulate Libras will quote Gandhi: Hate the sin but love the sinner., George Zimmerman, killer of Trayvon Martin (Oct. 5). When I get angry I yell and scream but if it gets worst I start getting physical and it's scary. If I screw up I own up. So sometimes, they might hide their emotions to maintain their image. They're not really comfortable with people they don't know, so they are usually pretty shy at first. I love, appreciate, care and support all those close ones who accept and love me for who I am. I feel I am always there, I mean daily, to boost her up, just to not have her there when I need her or to even respond to a text in a decent amount of time. Libra people are charming and very easy to attract you. I am able to persuade people that my ideas are theirs and if it fails, it is on them. One is highly generous, but very, very controlling, everything HAS TO go their way. has no answer. god if they had only known. Sadness is an important emotion and part of the human spectrum. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. Libra is hopelessly disillusioned with her own actions & behaviour. 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I am a bi Leo female and fell for this Libra woman, who I have been friends with for around 2-3 years, and fell for her over a year ago. I searched under "Star signs related to types of crimes" and got the shocking result: Paedophilies = Librans. Well, Mr. Libra 1 must have gotten "turned on" by my comment because he Facebook friended me and took the initiative to send me a "Hey" message but must have changed his Libra mind and sent me a second (bizarre) message that was an obvious LIE, claiming he thought he was sending the message to his sister. 2023byTango Publishing Corporation All Rights Reserved. Librans want peace and negative ones want it at any price, even if it means sneaking around, denying, controlling, and drama. Secondly, most of the time we have no absolute clue how to deal with ourselves. They will never make her needs for materialistic stability happy, nor her emotional driven self to be happy. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. Things seem to be falling apart around me. If look from the good side we're doing you a favor before you meet our Lucifer side so you must be happy :). I, pity myself to the point where i start crying. The alarm bells were ringing, I was no longer denying the gut and i made sure I got her whole astrology chart (on the pretense of performing a compatibility report for her new Prey). Guys you are reading an article about the DARK SIDE of Libra, of course you are going to read a lot of bad things! Yet, that didn't stop Mr Libra from pursuing me and creating "DRAMA" by telling his friends I was "divorced" or "was getting a divorce". I was a big fool. Other day called her home only to have her drunk freind try to question me on religion? I completely agree with this. if you think you're leave a Libra or divorced him/her absolutely you thinking wrong We are spend 2-3 hours before buy/sell something so if we really don't want to leave we would never let you go. After the beginning of the year she started being more flirtatious. When contronted, she will attacks you, cry, yell about how unfair life is and youre a bad guy for tainting the pristine image that they have. So now every Libran is a bad parent? It is overly exaggerated. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. Libra is often misunderstood and seen as the villian because they are too themselves. Something darker? You won't have to worry about a Libra cheating. Boy was I so wrong and regretted holding on for so long. I then inherited a lot of money (and I already own my home and rent it out which I know she hated as she wasn't interested in seeing the renovation photos) and I told her my news. Thankyou from the now bitter, cold, and unhopeful libra if unhopeful is a word lol. I get along with Virgos and Scorpios just fine. When she is overcome by sadness or melancholy, it is certain that her emotions will have a drastic impact on the choices that she makes. So.. (how do I express myself without sounding like a total Libra) I would love to discuss some of the points of this article just to shine light from the PERSONAL perspective not to justify our behaviour, not to disrespect other points of views, but just to try and explain. Pro Libra tip: let go of your high expectations and unreal fantasies, life will become a lot more easier. Unfortunately, it can be hard for them to keep these emotions in, so those around them might feel backlash for a while. She wants to feel free and keep it light, turning away naturally from people whose characteristics feel too negative or intense for her. This is true. These people would never guess that Professor Libra was NOT at all on their side and was infact VERY jealous of them. Irritability is the worst part I hate about myself. We are the angel and the demon in one and we are enthralled with both sides equallythough we have a secret love and a secret draw towards the power of our darkness.